The Guy You Date: Thinks about what you have to offer him. He loves you because you give him your undivided time and attention, you're attractive, and you share common interests and hobbies like playing tennis or obsessing over Fall Out Boy. He is hoping you will be a good match for him.

The Guy You Marry: Thinks about what he has to offer you. He loves you because of who you are- he appreciates your quirks, your flaws and strange sense of humor, the way you snort when you laugh and read Charles Dickens every winter, and everything he's come to know about you. He is hoping he will be a good husband for you.