Dear The Bridal Guru,

I have been invited to a huge wedding. Most of my friends are married or in serious relationships. That means they will have someone with them at the wedding, especially the reception to talk and dance with. I really don't want to go alone. Is it OK to bring a date to the wedding?

Alone

Dear Alone,

I know it's hard being single and going to wedding, especially alone. There's so much love and kissing and you feel like an outcast with all the couples cozying up especially for the slow dances. Naturally, you don't want to be alone. I wouldn't either.

Can you bring a date to the wedding? How is the wedding invitation addressed to you? Is it your name and a guest or your name plus one? It's OK to bring a date to the wedding if the invitation is specifically addressed to you and a friend. If the invitation is only addressed to you and you alone, then, No, it is not ok to bring a friend. Ask around and see if other friends that are not in a relationship are going to this wedding. You can all go together.

Look at this as an opportunity to meet new people and make new friends. Who knows, you may meet the man of your dreams at your friend's wedding. It might not happen if you have an escort or companion.

Remember, the couple have to pay the catering company or banquet hall a per person fee for food and beverage. If it's a sit down dinner, they may be limited to the number of people that the wedding venue can accommodate and their pocketbooks can host. Be considerate of the couple and go, enjoy and celebrate their wedding. I'm sure you'll be with friends that will embrace you. Look at this as an opportunity to open new doors for you. Dress to impress, but don't upstage the bride. Enjoy the wedding with or without a date!

The Bridal Guru

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